Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Recent Tweets from College Parents

Tweet Watch 9/1/09:

We're following college parents on Twitter & posting their tweets about being a college parent here.

My youngest daughter starts college 2moro :-s Old, Feel I do @yeomanphill

My neighbor said "I wondered what was wrong and then I remembered your daughter left for college last week." Is it that obvious? @louisey

Wasn't on here much yesterday because my daughter keeps texting me from college with problems. @kklfan

Home again after dropping our daughter off at college. House feels different. A new chapter beginning... @spaciousself

cleaning a little bit...daughter left for college..i miss her so much! @bjuce

I wonder if it is too late to change my mind and make my daughter stay home for college? @wendyneu

All moved in. Walking around lots of unpacked boxes still. Missing my daughter. We dropped her off at her college last Saturday. @kathyharding

Really enjoying time with my son before he starts college in a couple weeks. @SpiritsCalling

Geez, just got paid and its already spent. My son had buy his books for college. @lshayden

Mumblings of a marred mom: Still can't adjust to son away @ college. Moms of Kindergarten kids are sad too but theirs come home every day. @knightcrane

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College Survival Skills: 8 things you need to know before you go

Here are a few tips to make the adjustment a little easier, whether you’re moving across the country or just across town.

Washing

The number one, infamous incompetence of new college students: laundry. That’s right, it’s time to start learning how to pre-treat your stained clothes (a little something called Spray ’n Wash), and then separate whites from colors. Learn what settings your clothes are usually washed in at home. And start to remember to check the tag of your new clothes. Is it machine washable? Can it be put in the drier? Pay attention or you’ll end up ruining a new silk blouse or shrinking a wooly sweater. It would be handy to learn how to pass an iron over those dress pants or sew on a stray button as well.

Driving

A surprising number of people actually come to college without a driver’s license. Luckily, you might not need to drive a lot once on campus, but it’s better to learn when you’re at home, in familiar surroundings. And living in a city is no excuse: even if you have no need for a car on a daily basis now or in college, it doesn’t hurt to have a license. You might travel someplace with friends in college and someone will need to do the driving, or you might choose to volunteer for a group or work at a summer camp that requires you to get van certified. And it’s always good to have one extra person available to be a designated driver. You’re going to want to know how to drive at some point in your life; now’s a better time than after graduation, when you’re applying for jobs and possibly moving again.

Paying

With your newfound freedom come new costs. Chances are, you’ll be the one paying for that burrito you picked up at 3am, and the pizza you ordered last night, and those flip-flops you just had to have. Writing checks, balancing a checkbook, and paying bills are all important lessons to learn before setting out on your own. You like buying—and nobody likes a mooch—so it’s time to figure out the mechanics of paying for it, from online bill payment to keeping up with your pricey cell plan. And even if your parents are generously covering many costs for you, it’s good to know how to manage your money, because you’ll have to eventually. You don’t want to be the 24-year-old who doesn’t know how to write a check, so start practicing.

Cleaning

You’ll set your room up just the way you like it when you first arrive—and then four wild parties, three exams, one all-nighter, and two pizza deliveries later, it’s unrecognizable. Sure, you probably have janitors who clean the hallways for you (have a little sympathy for them and make sure trash actually makes it into the right receptacle), but your room is all yours. This isn’t just about picking up after yourself (everyone can live with a little clutter); this is about giant dust bunnies, Oreos mashed into the carpet, unidentified spilled substances. Never run a vacuum before, or even heard of a dustbuster? Take a trip down the household cleaning section of Target and chances are you’ll pick up a lot, from Wet Wipes to room deodorizer. If you have your own bathroom, that’s a whole other story. A recommendation: make a cleaning schedule with your roommates in order to avoid one of those silent battles that take shape when each person waits for the other to give in and scrub the accumulating grime.

Marketing

Think you’ll be looking for a summer job or an internship after your first year? It’s time to learn how to make a professional-style resume. Take a look at some different templates to get an idea of what you’ll need: usually contact info, education, previous work experience, activities and leadership experience, sometimes special talents (like proficiency in a foreign language, or computer programming). Start compiling a list of things about yourself that would fit on a resume and try putting them together. You might be surprised how tricky it is to keep things concise, so start it now. When you’re going in for that interview in a few months, all you’ll have to do is click “print!”

Spending

Read and repeat: a credit card is not an unlimited allowance, a credit card is not…College might be the first time you’ve had your own credit card, or at least free reign over it (and responsibility for the bills). You might think you’d never be one of those people who would start spending out of control, but the charges can add up quicker than you’d expect. Take the time to read the fine print, as boring as it is, and ask questions when you get your card. You should understand how it works: what your limit is, if you can use it out of the country, and what happens if you overcharge. And check your balance online. Regularly. Your wallet will thank you.

Writing

You breezed through AP English Lit by reading Sparknotes and wrote your final US History paper with Wikipedia as your only source? That may have worked in high school, but chances are your college professors won’t let it slide. Before you get swamped with midterms and discover you’re in over your head, you need to learn how to write a research paper. Acquaint yourself with the library (that’s right, it’s still not possible to do absolutely everything online!) and how to put together a proper bibliography, MLA style. There are still some good resources on the web, like Google Books, which you can use to skim samples of books to decide whether it’s worth the trek to the library, and Google Scholar, where you can find full academic papers.

Sharing

Surprisingly, everyone doesn’t get this lesson down perfectly in preschool. Jokes aside, though it may sound simple, in college you’ll find yourself having to share things you never did before, with people who have different lifestyles and habits and who you might not have chosen as roommates. Compromise is key when it comes to the bathroom/kitchen/bedroom/storage space/you name it, because even the best of friendships can be seriously strained by choosing to live together. And don’t forget that sharing doesn’t just mean letting your roommate use half the closet—it also means not making her the only one who cleans the common room.

Health Care

Need more help surviving college? Check out our essential college first aid kit.


Tips provided by Unigo.com

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

College Textbook Buying Mistakes

As an incoming freshman, you’re under enough pressure, from choosing the right classes to surviving dorm life. Who has time to comparison shop for college textbooks? It’s tempting to go all-out with your (or your parents') credit card at the campus bookstore. But when you’re hit with a $600 bill for textbooks, that spring break trip you'd been looking forward to suddently starts to look a lot less attainable. We asked four current undergrads and recent alums for advice, and their consensus is to shop early and shop online. Here are the stories of their college textbook-buying woes and their top tips to spare you headaches and save you money:

Alan Zeng, CUNY Baruch College ’10: “Buying online is the most sensible choice for most students nowadays. The main problems are the accuracy of the book listing (i.e. volume number, condition, etc.) and shipping. Most of the online stores support expedited shipping, but if you choose ground, it could take weeks for you receive your order. If a class really requires the book, you'll will be behind in coursework due to sluggish shipping. To avoid this, buy from reputable vendors that are known for mass textbook-selling, such as textbooksRus.com, Alibris.com, and AbeBooks.com.”

Ashley Singh, Georgian Court University ’10: “One mistake I made was not double- and triple-checking the ISBN numbers and the edition of the books that were required for the course. This is important because if you don't pay attention, you have to go to the trouble of returning the book and scavenging for the right one.”

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Vlada Reznikova, School of Visual Arts ’10: “The biggest mistake you can make is buying a textbook you need just for one semester and buying it new at full price. Some used textbooks are in perfect condition and they cost 30% of the actual price. Alibris.com is an amazing website, the textbooks I got from there were like totally new.”

Amanda Winters, Ithaca College ’07: “These are the top three college textbook buying mistakes:

  1. Sometimes the seller of a used book doesn't really say how used it is: missing pages can make for some fast reading but really bad paper citations.
  2. Shipping: sometimes you can receive your book days after it's been assigned to to use in class, so plan ahead. If you need overnight shipping for emergency reading, the money you were trying to save goes out the window!
  3. Be careful with editions: there are usually variations between third, fourth, fifth, etc. that can mix you up and hurt your work.

Photo courtesy of wohnai

You'll find tons more bargain book tips and tricks in the Unigo.com Budget Student's Guide to College Textbooks:

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Thursday, August 20, 2009

Top Ways for College Parents & Students to Save

College is expensive! We've been searching for the best deals for college parents & students to help you save money on products & services you might buy for your student. We have compiled a list below. If you know of any other great deals, please add a comment to this article!

This month's featured special:

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Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Are you worried about your student contracting swine flu at college?

The Center for Disease Control suggests parents encourage their students do the following to avoid contracting swine flu (H1N1) while away at college:

  • Cover your nose and mouth with a tissue when you cough or sneeze. Throw the tissue in the trash after you use it.
  • Wash your hands often with soap and water, especially after you cough or sneeze. Alcohol-based hand cleaners* are also effective.
  • Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth. Germs spread this way.
  • Try to avoid close contact with sick people.
  • If you are sick with flu-like illness, CDC recommends that you stay home for at least 24 hours after your fever is gone except to get medical care or for other necessities. (Your fever should be gone without the use of a fever-reducing medicine.) Keep away from others as much as possible to keep from making others sick.

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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

6 Money-Saving College Textbook Tips for Freshmen

College textbook prices commonly evoke looks of disbelief from incoming college freshmen. $135 for a pre-calculus textbook and $65 for the supplement? That’s right, the cost of those new, glossy college textbooks has skyrocketed as publishers continue to crank out current editions almost every year. As a freshman, you’ll probably take at least four classes per semester, all in different subject areas. Additionally, textbooks for intro-level core classes often come with a higher price tag. Don’t have $600 to drop on books your first semester? By doing a little research, you can save the equivalent of a year's worth of late-night coffee breaks.

"Hi, my name is..." You might feel a bit awkward emailing your professor before even stepping foot inside the classroom, but get over that fear and you can save big bucks. As soon as you receive your class schedule and look up the professor’s name in the directory, send her a short, friendly email. Introduce yourself, explain that you'll be taking her class, and ask which textbooks will be assigned. If possible, get the textbooks' ISBN numbers. This will allow you to purchase used editions online or in the college bookstore before your classmates get a hold of them. Used textbooks can sell for half the price of new books, so copies of in-demand texts usually go fast. Your professor might even be impressed that you’re getting a head start on her class.

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Article provided by Unigo.com.

Friday, August 14, 2009

Saying Goodbye: Helping your Student Transition Successfully to College - while maintaining your own peace of mind

What does this mean for the parents who remain behind? The home is suddenly empty of the life that filled it now that their teen departed for school and begins the transition to adulthood.

How can you help your student handle this huge transition and prepare them to be successful when they're so far away?

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